But at the same time, losing in love or getting declined by a girl is just as intense, only painful. Getting the girl to like you and fall for you is actually the hard part. After all, why leave your heart out on the streets waiting for sheer luck to cross your path when there are better ways to go about it? If you want to tell a girl that you love her, make sure you know she already loves you and will probably answer in your favor.
Lately I am hearing so many stories about heartbreak. The stories seem the same She feels like he is crushing her spirit, he is no longer passionate about her, he says critical and hurtful words, he treats her like an option, and the list of reasons goes on. What surprises me the most is that when the girl finally walks away from all the hurt the guy is often surprised. What he doesn't realize is that she left a dozen warnings maybe more that she was broken, that she could not fight anymore, that he has crushed her spirit.
Misunderstandings and complacency are the biggest problems in most relationships. It affects every other aspect of your life which makes it one of the most important things to get right. But how do you show it? Knowing how may not come easy or naturally to everyone. Appreciating a person can be done in many ways.
I've been an online writer for over eight years. I love writing about relationships, love, romance, and flirting. An "I love you" message can instantly bring a smile to your girlfriend's face.