He spends most of the five hour event lying on his back, by the wall, while women stand on his face. When I see him at the end of the night, his hair is matted to the back of his head. Every couple of minutes, he taps my ankle. This is my cue to step off, so he can turn his head, alternating between left, right and centre.
But this sexual fixation, thought by some to be the result of crosstalk between the regions of the brain that correspond with genitalia and with feet, is a source of excitement for many people and their partners. Three anonymous women opened up to Cosmopolitan. Woman A: I was a teenager and already knew about the fetish, because he was my best friend prior to dating. We just made out and I told him he could play with my feet if he wanted to. I was flattered that he told me, when nobody else knew. So I do and have done a lot of paid foot play that did not include sex. I was very familiar with foot fetishists long before I ever hooked up with one for fun … I have a long-term casual sex partner now who loves feet more than anything.
They paint their nails, wear toe rings, put on high heeled shoes, wear stockings, wear open toed heels, put on toe rings, show off their entire foot when they wear flip flops, wear ankle bracelets. Also, feet are an extension of the legs, which are also sexy as hell. Everyone loves summer, especially me. What other time is it acceptable for women to wear flip-flops everyday?
Then there are guys who rely on your feet to get off sexually. We are talking about them. What is a fetish?